How can I make my daughter's wedding special w/o a lot of out-of-pocket $? His grandparents want them married

Query by That's me: How can I make my daughter's wedding ceremony specific w/o a lot of out-of-pocket $ ? His grandparents want them married
I'd like to say, do, or give a thing to make her day very memorable.

My oldest daughter (eighteen) told me just three weeks ago that she's finding married on August 25th. I am not financially ready for this. His (minister) grandfather and grandmother are setting this up, versus my will, but I have no say because they're both 18. "Grandpa" will marry them, at their house, and are carrying out all the decorating, preparing, etc. It seems like a family stress point on my daughter, even though she's all for it. She gets a fantastic CZ wedding ring!!!!!

Even though, as you may possibly have figured out, I do not want her marrying at age 18 (she need to be too wise for that, with a large school diploma and only two quarters left go accomplish her AA degree), to an eighteen year aged large school drop out. I do not want to be the ogre at the wedding. I'd like to do a thing memorable for her.

Any ideas?


Very best remedy:

Remedy by safiyafadil
Publish her a letter and let her know how you sense about her..what your dreams ended up for her when she was born and what you want for her now...all positive...put it in a wonderful keepsake box.

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