Kay (not her real name) was my very best buddy for 20 decades. We met when ended up were very young, just teenagers. She was maid of honor at my marriage ceremony and I was matron of honor at hers. We had our first young children very near jointly. Our husbands had been excellent friends and we had been element of all the big moments in each others lives.
Nevertheless about 2 years back I called her to give her my new phone amount and she was cold and distant, and created it obvious she didn't want to chat to me. I asked her what was wrong, had I carried out anything at all and was told she was hectic. She explained she didn't have a pen to consider down my new number and that she would call me back again. She by no means did.
Right after about 6 months of her not responding to emails, birthday/Xmas gifts and cards and her ignoring my daughter's birthday, I realized it was above. I wrote her a letter acknowledging the stop of the friendship, and thanked her for her friendship around the a long time and advised her how much it meant to me, I wished her all the finest for the foreseeable future and stated goodbye. She by no means replied.
It hurt like hell that she could just stroll away after we had been by way of so much jointly and not even inform me why she dumped me, let by yourself say goodbye.
Anyway two a long time later on, throughout the horrific bush fires that we had in Victoria this February, the fires came inside of a few kilometers of their property, so my husband rang her husband to see if they ended up ok. He was aparently happy to listen to from my husband and explained that they found on the news how near the bushfires had arrive to us (the fire had come 300 metres of our front door, we had to evacuate). He mentioned he would ring my husband again but he never ever did till about three weeks ago, when he rang and explained that it would be good if we could all catch up jointly. My husband asked him what had happened two years in the past, what had we done, and he mentioned that they had just been active (for over two years!!??).
When my husband advised me about the phone phone, my very first reaction was 'NO WAY I do not want to see her!' which shocked me, soon after lacking her so considerably I didn't want to see her at all. I think the harm went as well deep.
I don't even know if this was an try to reinstate our friendship, to say that they had been as well busy for two a long time was dishonest and insulting to our once close friendship, and generally says that I imply nothing at all to her. Maybe I would have felt distinct if she had rang me.
We haven't contacted them yet again, and I don't know if this is the appropriate thing to do.
What ought to I do?
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